Ogham Readings on Sundays
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kimberlysteele
I am happy to read your Ogham free of charge -- that's how I hone my divination skills. I take reading requests until 8pm Central Time (Chicago Illinois USA) on Sunday night. Though I am flattered that people want readings after the deadline, I decline reading requests made after 8pm Central Time on Sunday night without exception.
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Ogham readings are concluded for the week of October 30, 2022. Please feel free to comment on existing threads though. Thank you and see you next week for more free Ogham readings!
Week 44
Date: 2022-10-30 04:49 am (UTC)A few questions this week:
1. What do I need to know in order to make the best out of this week?
2. Could the Ogham comment on the "state of my karma," for lack of a better phrase?
Background: I sometimes feel like this is my first human incarnation, perhaps in order to comfort myself for the many huge mistakes that (I think) I've made in my life. But then I wonder, if this isn't my first time, what is the universe trying to tell me that I keep ignoring?
3. Not including the spells coming from media advertisers/professional con artists/self-serving bureaucrats, am I under psychic attack from someone I (used to) know?
Thanks!
-Eugene
Re: Week 44
Date: 2022-10-31 12:25 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Beith or Intention well-dignified. You have the presence of mind this week to complete old cycles and to go in a new, positive direction. Understanding your own limitations without overreaction, guilt, or unexamined fear will go a long way in helping you to shape the best future for yourself this week.
For the Situation, you drew Huath or Obstacles well-dignified. When you meet challenges without whining but also without obtuse acceptance (letting life steamroll over you) it strengthens you against future adversity. You will have at least one challenge this week that is put before you as a test of your character. The balanced way of dealing with challenges is not to waffle and cower but also not to force through like a bull in a china shop. As in all things, moderation and living in the middle are the best strategy.
For the Outcome, you drew Ur or Intimacy ill-dignified. This points to possible Forever Alone syndrome, otherwise known as lack of intimacy, where you withdraw into a shell. Other imbalances of intimacy include babbling information in an urge to look "cool", telling secrets that need to stay secret, or generally trying to people please to your own detriment. Because this is Situation, it may indicate someone in your world who is doing the same thing or person with whom genuine intimacy is difficult to impossible.
For your State of Karma, my Ogham provide Uilleand or Generosity. When this is ill-dignified, it often indicates a tendency to smother or be smothered. If it is a tendency to smother, it means you dump affection on whoever is closest to you (friend, lover, family) and then get angry, frustrated, disappointed, or depressed when they don't reciprocate your feelings and actions. It can also point to someone doing this to you by turning you into a fetish/mascot, though it is more common for men to be the smotherers in this sort of relationship. In either case, it is crucial that the smotherer backs off and gets his or her own life with a strict and unrelenting focus on multidimensional self-improvement. Oddly enough, Steve Martin the comedian wrote a novel about such a character who goes through a massive self-transformation. In the novel, the character is a weak, whiny young man named Jeremy who works on himself and gradually comes into mature and proud manhood. If you are the person who is the dumpster of someone else's toxic affection, the only way out typically is to remove yourself from their life, because that person is an addict and you are their drug.
For the third question, my Ogham say Yes, they think someone you used to know is throwing hexes your way. They provide Straif or Strife well-dignified, which is to say you will be fine, though basic natural magic measures to defeat them would be a good idea. Most of that energy is bouncing back at them and hitting them upside the head.
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Date: 2022-10-30 07:44 am (UTC)I think your new photo sends a good vibe.
Please can you ask your Ogham what I would be wise to keep in mind this week.
no subject
Date: 2022-10-31 12:42 am (UTC)Thanks! Your week looks good. All three cards were well-dignified.
For the You card, you drew Phagos or Teaching. You will have one or more insights that make this confusing world a little easier to understand. Recording them in a journal is recommended; they will be worth thinking about.
For the Situation, you drew Duir or Gifts. You will have an opportunity to share your gifts and/or others will share theirs with you. The best way of increasing gifts all around is never to allow them to pile up or be in stasis: use them, give them away, and generally demonstrate they are part of a flow that never stops moving.
For the Outcome, you drew Quert or Delight. It is the small courtesies and favors that make all of life worth living. This is excellent as karma because it shows small kindnesses and appreciations on your part that have piled up as good karma.
no subject
Date: 2022-10-30 07:51 am (UTC)what's up this week?
Thanks!
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Date: 2022-10-31 01:54 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Ngetal or Hygiene ill-dignified. This points to your health situation being precarious, so put time and effort into TLC such as vitamin supplements, helpful herbs, and plenty of sleep and rest to head off any health problems at the pass.
For the Situation, you drew Onn or Community well-dignified. You will give and/or get help to/from semi-strangers, and this could include extended family, people in the community, or co-workers. You fit harmoniously into a working natural network. It's a good feeling.
For the Outcome, you drew Huath or Obstacles ill-dignified. It's important not to force things this week. If you have an idea of the way things should work or an opinion, don't force it. Alternately, be prepared to rise to challenges this week that require going against popular opinion or the perceived opinions of loved ones. You may have to be fearless, brave, or steadfast; that's what Huath is all about.
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Date: 2022-10-30 03:14 pm (UTC)I have two questions for you this week, but one can wait until next week if you don't have time for two.
My first question is, may I please have a general reading for the month of November 2022? The reading you gave me for October was very accurate, and I've decided I like the monthly rather than the weekly time frame - I feel like it gives me a better perspective, plus I can ask your Ogham other questions during the month instead of asking for weekly updates each Sunday :)
My second question (which I will pose next week if you're too busy for too this time) is, what does your Ogham think of an upcoming decision I have to make? Without going into too much detail, my options are
A (my husband favors going this route, but I'm not so sure)
B (an option which I don't like on the face of it, but which may have some benefits in the larger scheme of things, although hubby disagrees)
C (basically an "opt out" and not pursue this at all choice)
Thanks so much for all you do!
(And I can totally save the second question for next time if you and your Ogham only want to answer one this week.)
J
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Date: 2022-10-31 02:28 am (UTC)The Ogham see a nice November coming your way. All three cards were well-dignified.
The first or most immediate card is Onn or Community. You fit well into your niche and take your proper place in your community. This card points to harmonious relations and mutual benefit.
For the Situation, you drew Ngetal or Hygiene. Ngetal is a state of emotional well-being that can vibrate down to the physical. Basically it is knowing what is good for you and what needs to be thrown away in order to thrive. Because it is in Situation, it may be talking about how someone close to you affects you or what they are doing to keep themselves emotionally and physically healthy.
For the Outcome, you drew Duir or Gifts. You see the benefits of keeping the flow of gifts going rather than letting them stagnate as many do (hoarded wealth, unused talent, and jealously-guarded influence are three examples of stagnant gifts) and how the returns on those gifts make you truly rich -- of course I am not talking exclusively about monetary wealth, though that can happen as a result of spreading your gifts.
To your other questions, the Ogham give you three cards in reference to your questions.
For A, the Ogham provide Quert or Delight well-dignified, indicating it is a good option.
For B, they provide Saille or Sensitivity well-dignified, which indicates it is the exact right balance and the most benefits for all involved.
For C, they provide a hard No in the form of Ruis or Regret ill-dignified. They think if you opt out, you will regret it.
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Date: 2022-10-30 04:10 pm (UTC)Two questions from me, if you don't mind? Both fairly bleak, unfortunately.
1) Does the Ogham have any thoughts on the likelihood of nuclear weapons being used this winter?
2) Can the Ogham tell me if there are any malevolent entities attached to, or otherwise affecting me? I had the old 'rona about a month ago (I'm unfoxed, and would probably rate it a 5 or 6 out of 10 - not fun, but I've definitely had worse flu) and recovered fine within a week, but I've just had a string of bad luck ever since and the chasing dreams have come back. All my usual banishing practices, etc, don't seem to have done much.
Thanks,
Mr. Crow
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Date: 2022-10-31 02:35 am (UTC)I feel you on this. The astral miasma/morass has been especially difficult lately. It's like trying to stay dry and clean in a s**tstorm.
To Question 1) they say it is highly likely some idiot is going to use a nuke this winter. How sad that people never learn. They provide Eadha or Limits well-dignified, so this is a good sign because it means the nuclear strike won't be an Earth-ender and points to the responsible country/countries being roundly condemned and punished.
To Question 2, they provide Ailm or Transcendence ill-dignified. This tells me you will need help banishing whatever is attaching itself to you right now. If you are patronizing a deity or deities, this is the way to go because they can do what we humans cannot. Consider some planetary charity, especially to Apollo because he is the demon-slayer. It's also not a bad idea to pray to Jesus (I say this as a committed non-Christian) as he helps people who are beset with parasites and demons. He is the one who I believe provided the statement "In order for the exorcism to be successful, you've got to love the boy more than you hate the demon inside him".
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Date: 2022-10-31 12:58 pm (UTC)Regarding question 1 - I had a horrible feeling that might be the case, but I'm glad it is unlikely to drag us into global catastrophe. I have a feeling a know which countries may be responsible, but I'll keep my thoughts to myself on that.
Regarding 2 - Hmm. Interesting. It does feel a bit like something has stuck itself to me. I'll certainly give both the prayers and charity a go.
Thanks again!
Mr. Crow
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Date: 2022-10-30 04:23 pm (UTC)I was thinking of taking up the Way of the Golden Section but I'm not quite sure it's right for me or the right timing. What do your Ogham have to say about that?
Thank you and blessed Samhuinn!
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Date: 2022-10-30 06:40 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-10-31 02:37 am (UTC)Thank you and many blessings to you and yours as well! My Ogham like the Way of the Golden Section for you very much. They provide Gort or Perseverance well-dignified, indicating it's a wonderful path for you for the long haul.
Disorganized
Date: 2022-10-30 06:38 pm (UTC)I met one of my next door neighbors and was invited to a Halloween party, which we attended and I think went very well. We managed to get one of the most physically grueling tasks of home repair completed; driving ground rods in this rocky clay soil. Despite all this, I feel low energy and scatter brained.
I would like to ask the Ogham two questions this week. First, what should I focus on this week? Second, is the issue we've been dealing with going to be more than a passing nuisance?
Thank you,
-MF
Re: Disorganized
Date: 2022-10-31 02:45 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You card, they give Ruis or Regret well-dignified. The state you find yourself in is a resolution of past karma, so they suggest soldiering through with a stiff upper lip. The rewards will come, but not immediately. Delayed gratification is the order of the week. Use the benefits of regret to understand why you won't be making the same mistakes twice.
For the Situation, they provide Fearn or Bridge ill-dignified. This can point to a bad influence on you or someone close to you. Potentially it is someone who means well but is misguided themselves, so the challenge here is not to overreact and to take defensive stances where none are necessary. On the flipside of imbalance, Fearn can mean being impervious to good advice (determined to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory) or to feel there isn't any good advice to be had.
For the Outcome, you drew Muin or Harvest ill-dignified. This can point to some "psychology of previous investment" or plugging away though you know something is probably going to fail because you've got too much in it. Traps are always meant to teach us something, the only question is how long it will take to learn the lesson.
For your final question, my Ogham claim that the issue is probably more than just a passing annoyance. They provide Saille or Flexibility, meaning that being oversensitive to the issue will be just as bad as ignoring it and pretending it isn't happening. Your best bet is to take a middle approach, and be ready for problems without getting too paranoid about it or the opposite, ignoring them completely.
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Date: 2022-10-30 07:15 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-10-31 02:52 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Muin or Harvest well-dignified. You reap the benefits of what you've sown in some form: whether this is relationship-related, an actual investment of time or money, the development of a skill, or "other" the Ogham are not saying. Enjoy the fruits of your labor this week... you've earned them!
For the Situation, you drew Uilleand or Generosity ill-dignified. This is a card that when ill-dignified can indicate the presence of someone who smothers in the form of actual or perceived love. Hopefully this person is not you, because smotherers overwhelm and try to create dependency with their influence whether they realize they are doing this or not. Uilleand can also mean someone who is generous to a fault, and in this case there is no negative side. Those who give from their hearts with no expectation of reciprocity are rewarded by the power of seven, usually across all of the planes but if not, seemingly quite a bit in the afterlife/afterlives.
For the Outcome, you drew Koad or Confluence well-dignified. There are lots of things destined to go right this week, and that is partially what you've put in place for yourself. It's OK to take credit and pat yourself on the back just as long as you can keep your ego and sense of entitlement in check.
no subject
Date: 2022-10-30 08:10 pm (UTC)A reading about what's on my mind this past weekend would be appreciated
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Date: 2022-10-31 02:59 am (UTC)The Ogham give you three cards.
For the You position, meaning your overall outlook and consequences of the past weekend, you drew Mór or Sea Change well-dignified. What happened was all for the best. Since it was completely outside of your realm of control, your best bet is to understand why it was better that you had no reigning influence over it.
For the Situation, you drew Saille or Sensitivity ill-dignified. There is still part of this that you aren't letting go of and you need to set it free to its own destiny. There will be a time when you grow out of your current mental state and where the events on your mind right now seem trifling and insignificant.
For the Outcome, you drew Huath or Obstacles well-dignified. You are undergoing a necessary test given to you by a Watcher. We all have them, though most people choose to ignore theirs and not listen to them ever. By realizing you have a Watcher and trying to constantly do better, you can let the Watcher help you to avoid future "stupid human tricks" of the sort that make the average human life miserable.
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Date: 2022-11-02 11:30 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-10-30 09:42 pm (UTC)Hi Kimberly,
My question for the Ogham is this: what would the outcome be if I pursued being a Waldorf teacher?
Thank you for your time.
no subject
Date: 2022-10-31 03:00 am (UTC)Generally my Ogham like it. They provide Eadha or Limits well-dignified, meaning that it's well within your skill set and you will make an excellent Waldorf teacher if you pursue it.
Princess Cutekitten
Date: 2022-10-30 11:24 pm (UTC)There were no truck attacks last week, thanks for the heads up! Being home in bed w/flu for the first part of the week probably helped, too. Here in Kittenville, it’s going around remarkably early. We hadn’t even got our flu shots yet. The dr’s office didn’t even have any shots in stock yet. We’re getting them at CVS tomorrow. I’m going to go ahead and get one since in any given winter there are usually several different strains going around Kittenville, and once was more than enough.
Sonkitten did NOT catch my flu, a feat made possible by wearing his mask indoors, following me around with a can of Lysol, and twice daily wiping down the door knobs, light switches, toilet handle, faucet handles, refrigerator door handle, freezer door handle , and probably several things I’ve forgotten to mention. (It’s the Pennsylvania Dutch in him. He’d sterilize the world if he could.). So if someone in your family catches the flu and you don’t want to join the fun, there’s the Sonkitten Flu Avoidance Plan for you.
Re: Princess Cutekitten
Date: 2022-10-31 03:07 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Luis or Protection ill-dignified. This points to danger where you don't expect it and protective measures being more harmful than good. Unfortunately, this seems to reflect my Ogham's low opinion of Sonkitten's passionate approach to fighting germs and government-subsidized shots at CVS.
For the Situation, you drew Gort or Perseverance well-dignified. Slow and steady wins the race. You are fortunate to have chosen well in many respects and you will see the benefits of those choices this week in direct and indirect ways.
For the Outcome, you drew Eadha or Limits ill-dignified. This points to a lack of understanding about limiting forces and how limits can be used. What often seems like a harmful limit is a helpful one and vice a versa.
Self Healing
Date: 2022-10-30 11:35 pm (UTC)I believe I have burned too much time and energy trying to connect with 3 immediate family members.
It’s past time I accept these relationships will never be what I hope for, and move on.
Question for the Ogham:
How best to accept this disappointment and move on?
Thanks,
Valerie
Re: Self Healing
Date: 2022-10-31 03:14 am (UTC)They provide three cards for the three people you leave behind.
For the You card, they provide Duir or Gifts well-dignified. Your gifts aren't in good use with the three family members and they go unappreciated. Best to use them elsewhere on people, places, animals, etc. who can use them.
For the Situation, they provide Ioho or Grace ill-dignified. It is all too easy to try to cling on in various aspects, falling prey to sob stories or other emotional blackmail techniques your three family members may use to reel you in. You will have to strengthen yourself and anticipate their tactics before they can think them up. A cut and clear spell or spells may be worth pondering.
For the Outcome, they provide Straif or Resilience. Much of the issue with these family members is the inability to move with the flow. This is indicated by the previous card, which indicates an unwillingness to grow up, but also by this card which shows you as more resilient than they are. They are inflexible and that's what leads them to break. You are more fluid and able to go with the headwind instead of against it.
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Date: 2022-10-30 11:42 pm (UTC)Two questions if you don't mind:
1. What do I need to know to make the best of this week?
2. I went on a second date with a person this past Saturday. They're very nice and we get along well so far, but I have some concerns about them that may be well-founded or not. Also, I see them more as a potential friend than a potential partner at this time. I'd like to ask your Ogham what it thinks of them as a potential friend.
Thanks!
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Date: 2022-10-31 03:31 am (UTC)It's a banner Sunday for all well-dignified readings. Yours is coming up roses, all well-dignfied.
For the You position, you drew Muin or Harvest. You are coming into the benefits of what you put in place, though the Ogham do not reveal any specifics as to what. Understanding what you did right can help you to create more happiness and prosperity for yourself and those around you.
For the Situation, you drew Oír or Epiphany. Even when well-dignified, Oír can indicate a bit of pain, so be ready for that if it goes down that way. You see the writing on the wall and by this virtue can avoid future mistakes and take an important lesson that needed to happen. Because this is in Situation, it may involve someone in your inner circle.
For the Outcome or Karma, you drew Beith or Intention. You have the driving force this week and you aren't too saddled with distractions. Since the Ogham are smiling on your pursuits this week, it is a good idea to make notes on or journal about where you specifically put your energies.
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Date: 2022-10-31 03:33 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-10-31 12:08 am (UTC)I will like to know what is up for me this week.
Thank you for these readings.
no subject
Date: 2022-10-31 04:01 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Phagos or Teaching well-dignified. You have the benefit of knowing something well enough on the mental plane that you can have fun with it. That's the thing about true intelligence: it is lighthearted.
For the Situation, you drew Ngetal or Hygiene ill-dignified. This can be referring to you or someone in your inner circle either needing to take better care of themselves emotionally and physically or it could indicate a state of counterproductive paranoia about health and disease. Since we live in an age where 4.5 billion people succumbed to counterproductive paranoia about maintaining their health, it is very common to encounter (or suffer) the attitude that health comes from outside oneself.
For the Outcome, you drew Koad or Confluence well-dignified. To some degree, you have been the beneficiary of good luck and good circumstances (not in your realm on control) but much of your good fortune is your own doing. You are seeing the returns of that good fortune this week, which makes it an excellent week to take notes and journal about what is going right in your life at the moment.
Good evening Kimberly
Date: 2022-10-31 12:17 am (UTC)I had intended to just convey my thanks sans questions this evening but it occurs as I write that I may be boxing myself in, isolating myself mentally and emotionally on the bumpy road I'm navigating, so please ask the Ogham what do I need to know now?
Prayers and best wishes.
Gawain
Re: Good evening Kimberly
Date: 2022-10-31 04:10 am (UTC)Thank you for the compliments and the "coffees"!
The Ogham give you three cards.
For the You position, they provide Gort or Perseverance well-dignified. Long haul strategies and attitudes are your best bet. Your determination and steadfastness will get you through this rough time. Know that this too shall pass. Gort often points to the Watcher testing us.
For the Situation, you drew Beith or Beginnings ill-dignified. It is important not to go in too many directions at once right now. Be merciless about eliminating that which isn't helping you, even if it is something you like. Your energy is too precious to waste. Recognizing your own limits goes a long way in helping you to persevere as the first card suggests.
For the Outcome, you drew Straif or Resilience/Flexibility ill-dignified. Moving with the times is one thing and trying to anticipate every possible setback and stressor is quite another. Worrying overtime isn't helpful. If it happens, it happens; so what, you'll cross that bridge when you get to it. That said, don't be a stick in the mud and if someone who is young (or young at heart) has a newfangled or unconventional idea, be prepared to give it some airtime.
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Date: 2022-10-31 12:38 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-10-31 04:17 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Tinne or Defense ill-dignified. Beware becoming butthurt or having your ego de-puffed: if you are wrong, do a graceful mea culpa and be done with it instead of clinging to being right. Beware also paranoia and skepticism gone haywire. That said, beware the opposite and that means don't be too trusting or let down your guard in an urge to be pleasant. There's a happy, pragmatic medium between the two extremes.
For the Situation, you drew Gort or Perseverance ill-dignified. You or someone close to you may feel very worn down. I often draw this card ill-dig when my bank account goes into the red or when someone close to me isn't doing well or is being a real pill. That said, the opposite imbalance this card may be referring to is an excess of Perseverance, which means sticking with a bad situation because you are used to it and you prefer the devil you know to the devil you don't know.
For the Outcome, you drew Ioho or Grace. This is a card of aging gracefully, of forgiveness, and of letting go of that which is not meant to be or at least not meant to be for you personally. I think it is one of the most important cards of the Ogham. Grace can be very difficult for us modernites: there is so much to cling to and get uptight about! Letting go is an art. What are you obliged to let go of this week?
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Date: 2022-10-31 12:41 am (UTC)I have two question this week, if that's OK.
First, Option A recommended two weeks ago might not be possible. Do your Ogham prefer Option A, or new Option D?
Second, what's up for me and my family this week?
Thanks!
-PW
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Date: 2022-10-31 04:25 am (UTC)My Ogham say both options are good if they are in play. For Option A, they still recommend it, providing Quert or Delight well-dignified to indicate their approval. For Option D, they provide Ioho or Grace well-dignified, which means that D is balanced and represents a mature approach.
For this week, you and your family drew three cards.
For the most immediate position, you got Beith or Beginnings ill-dignified. It is all too easy to get pulled in too many directions this week. Watch out for people pleasing that creates discord or money spent on the wrong things. Erring on the side of conservatism and for lack of a better word, plainness, is helpful this week. It is also possible that you or someone in the family suffers from either too much or too little energy this week.
For the Situation, you drew Saille or Sensitivity well-dignified. This is a week where you have the opportunity to discover and focus on what is truly important. When you do, you have a twin opportunity to get rid of the distractions that take away vital energy from that which is the lifeblood of happiness and contentment. Realizing what to get rid of is half or more of the battle.
For the Outcome, you drew Straif or Resilience well-dignified. You and your family are moving with the times, but not so much as to become a victim to them. This is the Ogham's way of saying the strategies you have put in place will be beneficial for the long haul, so stick to your guns and keep doing what you're doing.
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Date: 2022-10-31 12:54 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-10-31 04:40 am (UTC)This week may be a bit of a doozy -- it's my first all ill-dignified reading of the day. That said, I have had some of my best days on all ill-dignified readings, and often the Ogham helps me to avoid problems by providing an insight into areas where I may become imbalanced.
For the You position, you drew Koad or Confluence. There is some bad luck and uncontrollable misfortune this week -- the craptastic state of the collective astral may be one of them. Some of the bad luck is you being tested though, so take the reins and control whatever parts of it you can by making the best of it.
For the Situation, you drew Muin or Harvest. I know that all around me, I am in a situation where people are seeing the logical and often deadly results of very bad decisions they made over the last couple of years. Though I did not personally make those bad decisions, they affect my life all the time and I have to deal with the fallout every single day. This card may be referring directly to you, meaning you may be the one who is investing in a bad situation somehow, but it could also mean having to deal with a situation you did nothing to cause, such as in my case. Either way, we always have a choice how we can react. I am trying to be as grown up as I possibly can about it and this involves a great deal of not commenting when bad things happen as a result of bad decisions. If I thought it would help, I would say something.
For the Outcome, you drew Duir or Gifts. Duir really doesn't have a bad side. When it is ill-dignified, it can mean that privileges are being taken for granted, but it usually means that you are aware of them. The best way of using gifts is to share them and to keep them moving. The more compulsive you are about generosity, the more those gifts will return to you on the higher planes, transforming you into someone who is nothing but gifts. That's why poor people who are generous and give everything away are happier than they "should" be and sublimate themselves right into heaven.