Ogham Readings on Sundays
Jun. 3rd, 2023 11:52 pm
Hi Everyone,
I am happy to read your Ogham free of charge -- that's how I hone my divination skills. I take reading requests until 8pm Central Time (Chicago Illinois USA) on Sunday night. Though I am flattered that people want readings after the deadline, I decline reading requests made after 8pm Central Time on Sunday night without exception.
Please note I will be taking off the week of September 10, 2023. Readings will resume as usual September 17, 2023.
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New reading requests are closed for the week of Sunday, June 4, 2023. Feel free to comment on existing readings threads though. Have a good week and see you next week for more free Ogham readings.
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Date: 2023-06-04 05:07 am (UTC)What do I need to know to make the best of the next numerological week/cycle? Your Ogham knows what time period I am referring to.
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Date: 2023-06-04 11:21 pm (UTC)My Ogham certainly seem to like your incoming cycle -- they provide an all well-dignified reading. That said, I have had some doozies on all well-dig readings and great triumphs on all ill-dig readings, so take any of these readings with a grain of salt.
For the You position, you drew Gort or Perseverance. Overall, your approach has you not just surviving but thriving. There may be trolls, detractors, naysayers, and negativity, but they are water off a duck's back. It is good to keep in mind what has been omitted or done without that has given you strength.
For the Situation, you drew Nuin or Communication. You have a balanced sense of caution when it comes to reaching out as well as a good big picture of what is going on with any given person or group of people. Nuin indicates that strangers and technology bring more benefits than caveats.
For the Outcome, you drew Ioho or Grace. The Ogham approve of your general approach to leaving alone what is not meant to be or what is not meant for you. Our civilization unfortunately provides a multitude of examples of what happens when you force something that is beyond its time or what is not meant to be: for instance, celebrities who gracelessly chase the fountain of youth via surgery and so many who insist their path is the only way. Thank you for choosing to learn from their mistakes instead of joining in the fray. Having to let go is not easy and it is made much harder by the majority's tendency to cling.
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Date: 2023-06-04 07:45 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2023-06-04 11:25 pm (UTC)They provide Onn or Community well-dignified, which seems like a hint that this person comes with a bunch of other connections. Maybe he or she has a big family, large group of friends, or a strong network of colleagues. My Ogham think you should proceed if only to gain the experience of someone who gathers a large group around them; you are offered an opportunity to see how those dynamics work.
Week 23
Date: 2023-06-04 07:45 am (UTC)1. What do I need to know in order to make the best out of this week?
2. May the Ogham comment on my "shadow"/my "worst" qualities/what it is about me that tends to repel some people, despite my being able to get along with most people? I might be conflating different concepts into one; if so, I guess I'd like to focus on what it is about me that repels some people.
Thanks!
-Eugene
Re: Week 23
Date: 2023-06-04 11:54 pm (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Uilleand or Generosity ill-dignified. You may be prone to invest too much in another person/other people this week when you really ought to back off and play it cool. You can let people know you are there for them or that you appreciate them without actually stating it directly or giving them a gift. Err on the side of conservatism this week and if in doubt, leave it out.
For the Situation, you drew Saille or Sensitivity ill-dignified. You often have the issue of not trusting your own judgement and this week is no exception. Spend time in discursive meditation looking at when you were flexible with judgement calls and when you were not and look at the hows, whys, and various outcomes. Should you have drawn harder lines in the sand? Should you have been more permissive about bending your personal codes? What are your personal codes, maxims, and rules? Meditation of this nature is the best way to strategize for life's future curveballs.
For the Outcome, you drew Onn or Community well-dignified. It's a good week to get out and about. Whether it is a visit to the park to get some sunshine or an extended grocery shopping run, get out there in public and be among other people. It's healthy for the mind -- we humans are social animals by nature and even introverts need some people time for the etheric benefits, even if you don't end up talking with anyone.
As for your shadow, the Ogham give you Luis or Protection ill-dignified. You need to get over some people hating you instantly. All my life, I've dealt with people who hated me for no good reason. Every attractive, petite woman deals with this, and I was somewhat of a hottie back in the day. I learned people hated me without reason in preschool, when none of the girls would play with me and I would sit alone in the corner because I had no other choice. By first grade, I had a friend or two, but pretty much everyone else hated me. By junior high, along with all the kids who hated me, there were a few teachers who hated me because I was awkward and yet bright enough to see through some of their bullcrap. And then there were always the boys and men who lusted after me and stalked me because they saw me as some kind of collectible meant for them and them alone, and that was just as disgusting as being hated and also rooted in a warped perception that had almost nothing to do with me. I still have trolls who hate me for no decent reason. They're all about 20-30 years too late to hurt my feelings.
People are going to hate you and contrary to what you might be prone to believe, it will be a THEM problem, not a YOU problem. You have to let them be and stop trying to please them. Luis indicates that you need to build the positive in yourself, not dwell upon what negative characteristics you might possess that are pissing off people who most likely love to marinate in their own piss. One thing I have noticed about hateful people who hate me before they know the first damn thing about me is they are horribly insecure. They are afraid I will hate them -- I don't have the time or energy to hate them! I have my own problems. I suggest you stop worrying about being potentially repulsive... haters gonna hate... and only focus on what makes you attractive.
June strategy
Date: 2023-06-04 10:14 am (UTC)I'd like to ask for guidance for June. How can I best direct my efforts and energies this month?
Thanks as always,
Jonathan.
Re: June strategy
Date: 2023-06-05 12:10 am (UTC)You drew three cards for June.
For the You position, you drew Ruis or Regret ill-dignified. Your biggest project this month should be looking at how you see regret in discursive meditation. This will mean a great deal of shadow work in looking at the worst sorrows in your life, mea culpas, bad decisions, and wrong turns. When did you beat yourself up too much, and then fell into similar behavior and mistakes?
When did you refuse to admit you were at fault? When did you engage brutal honesty and overcome what you had messed up? If you look at these events with an eye towards balancing the imbalanced, you can do some serious healing.
For the Situation, you drew Quert or Delight well-dignified. In spite of all the potential shadow work (or perhaps because of it) you will have reason to celebrate this month. Take some time to relax, kick back, and enjoy life with others or by yourself. You've earned this and you deserve a break. Small moments of gratitude are what make up a life worth living.
For the Outcome, you drew Beith or Intention well-dignified. This month may see the beginning of a fortuitous connection or meaningful direction of self-improvement for you. By eliminating distractions and pruning out what you don't love, you become a stronger and healthier force.
Happy Birthday to me!
Date: 2023-06-04 11:51 am (UTC)https://kimberlysteele.dreamwidth.org/89493.html?thread=3123093#cmt3123093
As your Ogham indicated the last time I asked a question (hope I linked correctly), I ended up getting laid off. And it was just what the doctor ordered! I miss the money and a few of my clients and colleagues, but overall am looking forward to being retired (though I will eventually need a part-time job to supplement SS).
Since June is my birthday month, I'm interested in what the Ogham suggest would be helpful to know to optimize my personal new year for the balance of 2023.
Thank you for your and the Ogham's help!
MJ in MA
Re: Happy Birthday to me!
Date: 2023-06-05 12:28 am (UTC)Whew, what a week you've had. Congratulations on your retirement. I hope the gods bless your coming days with good cheer and fulfillment of your fondest dreams.
The Ogham give you an excellent omen: three well-dignified cards for your coming personal new year.
For the You position, they provide Eadha or Limits. Things would be a great deal rougher for you if you weren't as cognizant of your limits and how to work within them. This year will be an education on the power of limits, and in discovering how limits can work for you, you will be reviving a lost art that is in desperate need of a renaissance.
For the Situation, you drew Duir or Gifts. Duir is one of the best cards in the Ogham deck to begin with, and if it is well-dignified, it is forecasting the next year as one of beauty, inner peace, and personal growth. Because it is in Situation, the benevolence of this card radiates to all with whom you share your life. This is a good year to look at the flow of generosity in discursive meditation. People who are truly generous from the heart never truly lack and people who are parsimonious never have enough, even when they are loaded.
For the Outcome, you drew Koad or Confluence. Yes, some of your prosperity, peace, and happiness this year is sheer dumb luck, but more than one piece of it is due to your hard work, responsibility, and diligence. Time to enjoy the fruits of your labor and take credit where credit is due. What led to the good place you are in today? How could that have gone wrong? What happens when you appreciate where you are instead of lusting after or dreading any one of several potential futures?
Re: Happy Birthday to me!
Date: 2023-06-05 12:42 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2023-06-04 12:20 pm (UTC)A little while back, your Ogham gave a strong go-ahead to embark on a study of homeopathy. Lately, I've been studying spagyrics, which crosses over with homeopathy and herbalism, and I've been contemplating ways to take this further - ideally, I'd like to study both, but nowhere in Britain offers a combined homeopathy/herbalism program (maybe that doesn't exist anywhere, but I feel like it should). I may have to make a short-to-mid-term decision between them.
I wonder what your Ogham think about pursuing medical herbalism?
If there looks to be some potential there as well, would they be able to advise on School A (closer, shorter terms of study, but potentially more woke-ified), or School B (slightly further, 6-year course, less obviously woke-leaning)?
Thanks!
Luke
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Date: 2023-06-05 12:35 am (UTC)My Ogham like medical herbalism for you. They provide Eadha or Limits well-dignified, meaning they think it is just right for you at this time and that with time and study, you may end up being very proficient at it.
They think the two schools are a classic "half-dozen of one, six of the other" bind. Both get ill-dignified cards, meaning they both have an equal array of benefits and drawbacks. Pick your poison.
For School A, the Woke place, they give Quert or Delight ill-dignified, meaning there are likely some sore loser, jealous types who cannot take a joke and who are generally ingrates about their privileged positions in life that will make studying there more of a struggle than it needs to be.
For School B, they give Ailm or Transcendence ill-dignified, meaning the rigorousness and length of the course may be difficult to commit to fully or difficult to complete or both.
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Date: 2023-06-04 01:40 pm (UTC)Happy Sunday to you.
I am wondering what this week holds for me.
Much thanks to you and your Ogham.
Rooby
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Date: 2023-06-05 12:44 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Quert or Delight well-dignified. Quert is the joy you take in little things and gratitude for what almost everyone takes for granted. Prioritizing small courtesies and bits of thankfulness of this nature goes a long way in improving the world: if you want to improve the world, start small with the sorts of thoughts that Quert suggests celebrating tiny, every day moments.
For the Situation, you drew Coll or Wisdom ill-dignified. This is a good week to shut up and listen when you are tempted to speak, to hold your tongue or to ground your fingers from flying on the keyboard, and to commit to the slow and diligent (and often seemingly pointless, wax-on, wax off) work of true self-improvement.
For the Outcome, you drew Koad or Confluence well-dignified. Though much of this week will be lucky outright through no act of your own: lucky avoidances, breaks, near misses, good astral or other weather) much of it will be what you put in place yourself. It's OK to acknowledge your good works now and then and to cut yourself a little slack.
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Date: 2023-06-04 02:19 pm (UTC)May I have a reading for June 2023, please?
Thank you so much,
Jan
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Date: 2023-06-05 12:58 am (UTC)You drew three cards for June 2023.
For the You position, you drew Muin or Harvest well-dignified. Your good works come back to you in the form of wins, good will, prosperity, and possibly material wealth. What you get in June is what you have earned, and as it turns out, you invested well. You can sublimate your harvest by sharing it, by acting generously, and perhaps treating yourself to something nice as a pat on the back.
For the Situation, you drew Fearn or Bridge ill-dignified. Someone in your life (hopefully not you) may be prone to taking bad advice or may be tricked this month. There are always predators and scammers out there who want to take advantage of the naive or naturally polite. We don't need to sink to their level or take on the responsibility of curtailing them -- ignoring them and dismissing them is the best policy. Be on the lookout for scams, false gurus, and jerks. Fearn can also mean feeling stuck, inert, and not motivated to do much about it. My suggestion is to use a bad example as a thrust block if this is indeed the case. For instance, whenever I feel too lazy to clean up my space, I think about a hoarder and what it is like to live in a mess. I want to NOT be like that at all, so I clean my space.
For the Outcome, you drew Ioho or Rest ill-dignified. Straight up, you may have a tendency to either severely overwork, or you may end up the opposite and not have the mojo to do any work. Combat this possibility by knowing when it is time to quit... sometimes you're not finished, but you are DONE all the same. Knowing when to let go is important in matters of activity and rest but it is also an overarching theme: give up when the time is right and walk away from what is not meant to be, that is what is known as grace.
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Date: 2023-06-04 02:44 pm (UTC)Hi Kimberly,
What would the outcome be if I got a natal chart from Raven Kaldera? I'm a bit overwhelmed by all the different astrologers that offer natal chart readings, haha.
Thank you for your time.
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Date: 2023-06-05 01:00 am (UTC)Thanks for your question. My Ogham like a Raven Kaldera reading for you. They give you Oír or Epiphany, meaning that it will be very insightful and give you many options you most likely could not have come up with by yourself.
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Date: 2023-06-04 03:22 pm (UTC)Fellow teacher here. I am flying to visit family in a couple of days. I'm wondering about how it will go. What should I keep an eye out for?
Thanks!
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Date: 2023-06-05 01:11 am (UTC)For the You position, they provide Mór or Sea Change well-dignified. You are in a completely different state of mind from your last visit, and the little things that used to get to you can no longer reach you. So though there may be drama or trollish behavior, it has no power over you.
For the Situation, you drew Uilleand or Generosity. True generosity is the kind that comes from the heart, and if you are willing to see it in every human soul around you, it will help you build it within yourself. If you can focus on what your family has done for you instead of what they have not done for you, you will have a powerful magic that improves every interaction. The catch is that it is much more difficult to focus on the positive than the negative: we are wired to remember and fixate on the negative for survival reasons. Relentlessly focusing on what they have given you and what they have done right (even if they have done a ton of wrong and wish to bait you into talking crap or arguing) will make the visit a healing experience for everyone including you.
For the Outcome, you drew Phagos or Teaching. Again, I see the Ogham pointing on you having a great deal more psychological and social fortitude than previous visits. Because you are no longer captive to your old, reactionary self, chances are that you can interact on a genuine level with one or more members of your family. Everybody on this Earth is good at something and it is a major challenge to not only see it but to encourage them to share it.
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Date: 2023-06-05 10:33 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2023-06-04 04:23 pm (UTC)What should I be aware of for the upcoming week?
Last week did turn out to be a very good week for me. I had one rather 'interesting' incident happen but a complete stranger stepped up to help me and back me up and everything ended peacefully.
Thanks,
Nona
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Date: 2023-06-05 01:19 am (UTC)Glad to hear your "interesting" incident ended better than expected.
You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Ngetal or Hygiene well-dignified. You have a good sense of where you end and others begin this week: your judgement is sound and you neither give too much of yourself nor too little. That said, whenever this card shows up, it means some self-care is in order. Get some sunlight every day if at all possible, eat your vegetables, and don't be so strict that you deny yourself the occasional treat.
For the Situation, you drew Coll or Wisdom ill-dignified. You may end up having to suffer a fool: don't cast your pearls before swine, it's never worth it. There may also be temptation to say too much or volunteer what is not needed. Think before you speak, and if you feel pressured, stall for time. Less is more.
For the Outcome, you drew Nuin or Communication well-dignified. Technology and interactions (such as commercial ones) work out well this week, and you should not have to put too much effort where that is concerned. It is a good week to order things from overseas or to communicate with faraway people, whether that is in the form of reading old books (distant from you in time and space) or actually chatting with people halfway across the world.
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Date: 2023-06-04 05:21 pm (UTC)To ask: What is it for this upcoming week that I need to know, according to the Ogham?
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Date: 2023-06-05 01:54 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Mór or Sea Change well-dignified. The astral weather in your neck of the woods (and perhaps the physical weather) is fair and at least there is no added difficulty from general astral conditions. It is a good week to take general assessments, to look far into the past or the future, or to contemplate major decisions.
For the Situation, you drew Luis or Protection well-dignified. In any dignity, Luis can signify physical danger, so be on your guard this week. Otherwise, it talks about attracting the energy of the Higher Self and communication with the Higher Self. This is a good week to be solitary in wild and semi-wild spaces and to work through your own past in meditation.
For the Outcome, you drew Duir or Gifts ill-dignified. At worst, this week may make you a little self-conscious of your own privilege. Usually, even ill-dignified Duir is a wonderful card though. It talks about giving or receiving gifts that are in the spirit of genuine generosity. Gifts given from the heart without parsimony or expectation sublimate to the power of seven, meaning they will always return through the planes to the sender seven times over. That is why people who are genuinely generous never truly want for anything -- it will always be given to them just in the nick of time.
Work
Date: 2023-06-04 06:07 pm (UTC)Last week's reading was Nuin well-dignified, Ruis ill-dignified,
Koad well-dignified. At the beginning of the week I chose to pass on a dispatch that didn't quite mesh with my needs or qualifications. That choice allowed me to visit family further north this weekend and resulted in an overall pleasant and productive week. Unfortunately the jobs listed since have all been too far away to be feasible (100+ mile commutes.)
This week I would like to ask the Ogham what I should be aware of this week?
Thank you,
-MF
Re: Work
Date: 2023-06-05 02:03 am (UTC)Thanks for the feedback!
You drew three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Ngetal or Hygiene well-dignified. You combat your most flighty and unrealistic tendencies with hard work and discipline this week and thus keep yourself grounded and sane. That said, some self-care is in order whenever this card shows up, so I suggest some gentle respites like getting some sun (good for the eyes and the mood, the skin maybe not so much but oh well) and a well-crafted meal, eaten slowly.
For the Situation, you drew Ailm or Transcendence ill-dignified. There will be temptations to be your worst self, to presume the worst about others and perhaps act on the presumption. Check your own thoughts and behavior. There is also a reasonable expectation others will be behaving badly. I often pull Ailm ill-dig when I am feeling depressed or angry.
For the Outcome, you drew Luis or Protection ill-dignified. I would be remiss if I did not mention safety concerns: this card indicates Protection being compromised if it is ill-dig, so be on the lookout for safety risks and threats. Ill-dig Luis can mean much the same things as ill-dig Ailm, trouble getting over yourself, pettiness, meanness, depression, or jumping to conclusions. Be determined to rise above with honesty that your best self isn't always in charge. Being human is a long process of learning to change that.
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Date: 2023-06-04 06:21 pm (UTC)I have asked previously about my project (a large visual work suitable for public presentation not an intimate space).
You gave me very good news in your reading.
I documented the work (no easy feat) and publicized it online.
I have mailed out eleven inquiries in two weeks and already received two rejections.
I intend to keep going but what hits me is this: I am submitting to the pushers of 'the narrative.'
But I don't see an alternative.
Perhaps the publicity I am generating will draw the right person to me.
If I had the resources I would consider my own 'museum.'
Am I doing this right? Thank you.
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Date: 2023-06-05 02:10 am (UTC)The Ogham say you are doing the right thing. They provide Duir or Gifts well-dignified. This means you must learn to look at what you are doing as a sacred gift given from a spirit of true generosity. The gift will return to you via the power of seven, but as far as the timing and how the gods will decide to return your gift to you along the planes of existence, I have no idea.
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Date: 2023-06-04 06:26 pm (UTC)I'm seeking the Ogham's advice on three substitutions: A, B, and C?
Thanks
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Date: 2023-06-05 02:13 am (UTC)They give three cards, all ill-dignified. Though I'll tell you what they were, it's a clear sign they don't want to answer the question at the moment and that you should consider asking again later, if that's an option.
A. They give Saille or Sensitivity ill-dignified. It's either bending too much and breaking or not fitting the bill at all.
B. Fearn or Bridge ill-dignified. Not getting you to where you want to go.
C. Tinne or Defense ill-dignified. Potentially dangerous.
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Date: 2023-06-04 07:13 pm (UTC)a) Is my idea on a possible extension of the red amulet bag JMG suggests using in his Magic Monday FAQ safe to try?
b) Will it work?
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Date: 2023-06-05 02:14 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2023-06-04 08:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2023-06-05 02:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2023-06-04 09:00 pm (UTC)Could I have a general reading for the month of June?
Thank you.
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Date: 2023-06-05 02:26 am (UTC)You drew three cards this month.
For the You position, you drew Luis or Protection ill-dignified. When this card shows up, I always warn the querent of physical danger because it is one of the many Danger cards in the Ogham, the others being Tinne/Defense and Huath/Obstacles. So be on your guard. Other than that, it can talk about succumbing to your not-so-great instincts, such as pettiness, irritability, laziness, etc.
For the Situation, you drew Gort or Perseverance ill-dignified. There may be financial problems this month: I know I draw this card when my resources are drawn. Other than that, Gort can talk about feeling worn down, frustrated, or putting too much faith in what you want to happen versus being more realistic. Because this is in Situation, it could apply to someone close to you.
For the Outcome, you drew Saille or Flexibility well-dignified. Despite life's curveballs and challenges this month, you adapt in the right ways and handle it and yourself fairly well. By knowing what to keep and where to draw the line, you strike a balance and salvage the best of a mediocre situation.
Princess Cutekitten
Date: 2023-06-04 09:49 pm (UTC)Re: Princess Cutekitten
Date: 2023-06-05 02:34 am (UTC)You drew three ill-dig cards this week. It could mean you'll have a challenging week, or it could be an indication they don't feel like prognosticating.
For the You position, you drew Quert or Delight. It can be difficult to appreciate the little things in life -- a strict budget can seem like deprivation even though compared to some, we are technically living a life of ease.
For the Situation, you drew Mór or Sea Change. The astral stew is especially crap-laden in your area, and this affects the most sensitive people first. To them, it feels like being attacked on all sides. The actual, physical weather might also be garbage, making it difficult to do routine tasks and making tempers short.
For the Outcome, you drew Straif or Resilience. Sometimes there is no ability to prepare even if you expect the unexpected. Resources are thin and there is not enough energy, time, or money at the end of the day to do good works.
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Date: 2023-06-04 10:22 pm (UTC)What's up for me this week?
Many thanks, Heloise
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Date: 2023-06-05 02:42 am (UTC)You drew three cards this week.
For the You card, you drew Muin or Harvest ill-dignified. You may feel impatience with something or someone this week, or it is possible you are waiting for something that is delayed or is just taking a longer time that seems reasonable. Be wary of past, outmoded ways of thinking that no longer serve you and be ready to examine them thoroughly.
For the Situation, you drew Nuin or Communication well-dignified. You are honest in every way that you should be honest this week, neither saying too much or too little and making sure to acknowledge others. Communication from afar is also possible in the form of commerce or dispatches from far away friends. Technology is more of a help than a hindrance this week.
For the Outcome, you drew Gort or Perseverance ill-dignified. It is possible that there is a resource drain or that you end up lacking in mojo: "my get up and go got up and went". I know that's the way I feel as soon as this weather hits! On the opposite side of imbalance is the possibility that you are engaging in some acts of bad faith, pursuing dead ends, or digging yourself deeper in trouble when you need to be pulling yourself up from the trench.
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Date: 2023-06-04 10:43 pm (UTC)Will I ever meet S again?
Thanks.
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Date: 2023-06-05 02:43 am (UTC)My Ogham don't seem to think you'll meet S again, at least not in the flesh. They give Luis or Protection ill-dignified (negative).
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Date: 2023-06-05 11:50 pm (UTC)I've asked a couple of questions on here, and every time, the answer has been significant in a way that only I would understand, like a calling card. TSW,indeed.
Thank you to you and the Ogham deities for this service.
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Date: 2023-06-06 02:24 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2023-06-05 12:47 am (UTC)What's up for me and my family this week?
Thanks!
-PW
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Date: 2023-06-05 02:57 am (UTC)The Ogham give you and the fam three cards this week.
For the You position, you drew Gort or Perseverance well-dignified. Patience, compromise, and compassion are present within you and your family this week, providing a stable bedrock that is built to withstand hard times.
For the Situation, you drew Oír or Epiphany ill-dignified. You or a family member has a realization about reality that is necessary and part of the learning process, yet painful and harsh. Lines may need to be drawn, rules enforced, and assessments made.
For the Outcome, you drew Ur or Intimacy ill-dignified. Someone may say too much or be too agreeable and end up causing trouble despite good intentions. There is also the possibility of straight up irritation and spats between family members. Less is definitely more, and if in doubt if it will help, don't say it at all.