Sorry this is so long; it's a mix of feedback with the questions at the end, hope it makes sense.
We're in two groups the Ogham suggested would be good.
Feedback: The one that has always gotten positives from the Ogham (umbrella group (Muin well-dig) and both subgroups and we recently switched from one (Oir well-dig) to the other (Ur well-dig)) is going well and smoothly so far. I have been nervous and probably would have given up a while ago if it weren't for you and your Ogham, so: Thank you!
This question is about the other one.
The Ogham suggested we join in a certain way (Oir well-dig and when I asked more specifically, Duir well-dig), we did and the "new and interesting stuff to do" aspect is going great, but the social opportunities are lacking.
So now, the big group is trying to recruit one of us to be a leader for a new subgroup. They held a get-together for potential subgroup members which would've had the kids in one room and the adults in another and that's the one the Ogham said might be dangerous, even physically (Tinne ill-dig; we didn't go).
One possibility is that all this small-group stuff should just wait till daughter advances to the next level in the org (in a year or two).
Another possibility is that now is the time to join because now is when this little group is getting started, and trying to join the small group later on would be weird / harder.
I guess another is kind of in between: Just wait until we all feel ready, whether that's next week or next year or even later.
What do the Ogham think? (Not sure how to structure this question, whatever you think is best.)
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Date: 2025-10-11 06:55 pm (UTC)Sorry this is so long; it's a mix of feedback with the questions at the end, hope it makes sense.
We're in two groups the Ogham suggested would be good.
Feedback: The one that has always gotten positives from the Ogham (umbrella group (Muin well-dig) and both subgroups and we recently switched from one (Oir well-dig) to the other (Ur well-dig)) is going well and smoothly so far. I have been nervous and probably would have given up a while ago if it weren't for you and your Ogham, so: Thank you!
This question is about the other one.
The Ogham suggested we join in a certain way (Oir well-dig and when I asked more specifically, Duir well-dig), we did and the "new and interesting stuff to do" aspect is going great, but the social opportunities are lacking.
So now, the big group is trying to recruit one of us to be a leader for a new subgroup. They held a get-together for potential subgroup members which would've had the kids in one room and the adults in another and that's the one the Ogham said might be dangerous, even physically (Tinne ill-dig; we didn't go).
One possibility is that all this small-group stuff should just wait till daughter advances to the next level in the org (in a year or two).
Another possibility is that now is the time to join because now is when this little group is getting started, and trying to join the small group later on would be weird / harder.
I guess another is kind of in between: Just wait until we all feel ready, whether that's next week or next year or even later.
What do the Ogham think? (Not sure how to structure this question, whatever you think is best.)
Thanks again, and happy Halloween!
-PW