Kimberly, I really appreciate your insights and thinking. I never comment anywhere,I just created an account, so that I may. I believe as you do that extended family living together can be a source of strength. I bought a large house, so that my trans daughter and her trans partner could live with us, yet have their own living space. I have been hurt, as I only saw them unless they needed something. I am now under attack for being a bad person. So bad, that her partner will not allow my daughter to see me. It has been like living with the Stasi for my son and I. Our crime is that we are not sufficiently woke. After being screamed at and doors slammed by my daughter's partner, I have installed locks to keep them confined to their space. I have not communicated with either of them since this incident. I was given a nasty ultimatum that I must confess and apologize to both of them for everything that he listed in his 4 page manifesto of why I am so terrible or he will not allow me to see my daughter. I just can't do it anymore. Her father, just passed away last month in our home. I was the primary caregiver and wound up being the sole caregiver due to Covid 19. I received very little support from them. Now, I am accused of not being supportive enough of their transitioning. I am considering posting a Notice to Vacate to start the eviction process. Neither of them have jobs. I have been supporting them in everything. I am just sick over this. Any advice is welcolm.
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Date: 2021-06-27 06:06 pm (UTC)