"to feel good about a picture perfect mate isn't love, it's arousal or mental masturbation." This 100%. For men, porn is the ultimate feel-good substitute for connection and meaning. For women, it's either porn or for those who aren't into porn, novels and fan fiction. When the real world inevitably fails to live up to the addictive, prefabricated ideal, the easy answer is to get a divorce.
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Date: 2024-08-28 03:55 am (UTC)