The surest sign of mediocrity is complaining constantly that the opposite sex is composed of mediocrities. It's true, but any person of quality has enough self awareness to understand both that they are not an exception to that rule, and that many complaints about it makes one into a resentful clown. More than the actual, tangible flaws that people have, it is this blank lack of self awareness that really drives one mad. The actual brutal truth is that men tend towards being cynical lechers, lazy, and egoistically arrogant, and and women are often emotionally delusional, sanctimoniously arrogant, and manipulatively ruthless. Both sexes need to be beaten, shamed, and shanghaied together in order to make a stable foundation for children and the possibility of real, non-horomonal love. That twittering, nagging harridan or icky lazy slob of a man? Deal with them. You're no better, and possibly worse. The very appallingness of their flaws is what makes love possible; to feel good about a picture perfect mate isn't love, it's arousal or mental masturbation. Love is towards a heart and soul in all their luminous oddness, not a hunk of appetizing flesh that makes socially acceptable grunts in front of other up jumped apes.
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Date: 2024-08-28 02:59 am (UTC)