I'm OK with her saying she doesn't regret making an honest mistake out of love. Where I have trouble is insisting that everyone who disagreed with her did so out of hate.

But maybe I'm wrong, and actually should be more suspicious of people who say the first part too? I have a problem where as a kid I was bad at judging what was and was not common knowledge, so I'd explain common knowledge and get labeled "arrogant," or fail to explain something that wasn't common knowledge and...get labeled "arrogant."

So I kinda decided "arrogant" wasn't real. So now I often don't notice when others do things most would call "arrogant." Am I making that mistake here?