My Ogham provide Beith or Beginnings ill-dignified where this is concerned. What I am taking this to mean is that now is not the time for newfangled remedies, would be panaceas, or that which does anything except comfort her. It's OK to skip anything stressful or reminders of unpleasantness. Be direct and express your love and gratitude even if this is difficult or isn't your usual emotional style. You need to make your own energy steadfast and arrow-like, strong enough to overcome obstacles with its bravery.