She got back to me. Eventually we decide on going to a cooking class for our date. I initially assumed that we would each pay for our own ticket (almost $100, each), but I then find out that she wants me to pay for both of us. I tell her that that's too much for me (being a lowly teacher and all) and I suggest that we just go to a restaurant instead. She politely (graciously, even?) tells me "no" and that we need to go out separate ways now.
Seems to me you and your Ogham called it: maybe a good person but she's perhaps a bit too keen on financial security.
New question: I have found what appears to be an opportunity to work on my people skills. Not sure what to make of it, though. What do your Ogham think? Is it scammy? Will it be useful? Do I even need it?
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Date: 2025-03-15 02:04 pm (UTC)Update on that woman I met recently.
She got back to me. Eventually we decide on going to a cooking class for our date. I initially assumed that we would each pay for our own ticket (almost $100, each), but I then find out that she wants me to pay for both of us. I tell her that that's too much for me (being a lowly teacher and all) and I suggest that we just go to a restaurant instead. She politely (graciously, even?) tells me "no" and that we need to go out separate ways now.
Seems to me you and your Ogham called it: maybe a good person but she's perhaps a bit too keen on financial security.
New question: I have found what appears to be an opportunity to work on my people skills. Not sure what to make of it, though. What do your Ogham think? Is it scammy? Will it be useful? Do I even need it?
Thanks, Kimberly!